As parents, when we talk about the difficulty of divorce, we're usually talking about the emotional pain of separating from our partner, the fear of the financial situation, and the hardship on our children. Yet, this doesn't even scratch the surface of the reality of a divorce. Most parents don't realize that divorcing the right way, where you avoid ending up broke and broken (whether financially, emotionally, and/or physically) requires more analysis and careful consideration.
A "Divorce Strategy" is the most effective guide through this unknown territory. It is a detailed plan that helps you analyze and envision your post-divorce life with a bird's eye view so that you can effectively plan your future in a logical and mature manner before taking any actions in real life. While considering ALL the details you never imagined you'd have to think about right now, you will see what areas need more time to work through, more tweaking before you are ready for your next step work, and/or time to let things settle. You will discover things NOW, in the planning stage, that you would have had to face in the future when tension is considerably higher. This is how everyone becomes the "winner" post-divorce.
Essentially, a Divorce Strategy helps you create a mock-up divorce to see if and how every area of your life would fit well together. If it needs some attention and requires some tweaking before taking your next steps, you can do so now before bringing this all to life. Taking this proactive approach helps you steer clear from the trap of reacting to the looping sagas.
Co-parenting takes patience and communication and at the very least, the desired aim to co-exist, all of which can be quite challenging, especially since you're walking into an unfamiliar relationship with the other parent. If you'd like to avoid the common mistakes that plague families from far and wide, Ravit's unique approach to co-parent coaching will offer you the tools, strategies, and realistic solutions. In this difficult situation, co-parent coaching will be a valuable resource that will carry you throughout your postdivorce life.
The decision-making process of co-parenting should ideally start from the moment you are considering separation: before you announce your decision to the other parent, before you share anything with your children, and most especially before you make your decision known publicly. The most effective time to analyze and plan out the details is when you are calm and rational and while the other parent's emotions have not flared up so that you can focus on slowly creating your new reality without any internal or external pressure.
Your well thought out Divorce Strategy will carve the road to your new life path, so your objective should be to create a realistic system. Your goal should be to avoid the common mistakes that plague many families - acting out of desperation, denial, or despair - so that you can steer clear of the endless detours that will force you to relive your divorce over and over again. Ravit's Co-parent coaching services can help you divorce once and avoid the looping sagas and unnecessary chaos by providing you the tools you need to communicate your wishes and address your children's needs in a calm, mature and sensible manner that is proven to have long term positive effects.
Ravit Rose offers passionate, caring services to parents going through separation and divorce. After her own difficult divorce, she worked through the challenges by writing what would become her flagship book: Unwanted Nasty Divorces.
Now, she is a Divorce Coach and Mentor and is here to help parents through the divorce process by offering realistic strategies, tips, and techniques to help parents properly plan the details of their divorce so that they can focus on the future they want and deserve.
To learn more about her co-parent coaching services, send a message through the website, or find us on social media.
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