We think we know how to divorce. We don’t.
We think we only need a lawyer and/or therapist.
That is WRONG thinking.
As you enter this unknown territory, you are essentially rebuilding something that is broken. This requires careful planning and analysis from various professionals.
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When divorcing, do you only need a lawyer and therapist?
Most parents make the wrong mistake when it comes to step number one of getting divorced. They think that the first two people they need to hire from the get-go is a lawyer and a therapist. I have to disagree that those are the ONLY two professionals that you need to go to. Why? Because you're going to fall into a whole load of unknowns. You're walking into an unknown territory and I can tell you from personal experience that those are not the only two professionals that you need. There are many other professionals from various different industries who can help answer your questions better than a lawyer or a therapist. And I'm not saying a lawyer and a therapist is bad, nothing against them whatsoever.
They do great jobs. But it may not be what you meet. It may not be the only solutions that you should be banking on. Why? Because there are so many different angles to divorce. So, it's like I say: “your divorce is like a puzzle”. So, if you want to see the picture of the puzzle, you need to put all the different pieces together. Every single piece represents a different part of your life. You've got your children, your life as an individual, you've got the finances, you've got your role as a parent… there's so many different components and they're all different for each person, right? It's not like a one size fits all.
So once you have all these different pieces, you have to connect them together and it has to make sense. That means that you may have to speak to a different specialist for every area to help you answer and find the best solution so that that piece fits all the rest. And therapists and lawyers that is not their job, that is not necessarily what they do. But I can tell you that when I was getting divorced, I did not go to a whole bunch of coaches. I did not go get a whole bunch of help. And I can tell you, I made a whole bunch of mistakes along the way, because I thought I had it all figured out. I thought I had all the answers. I thought I knew best and little did I know that I really didn't. And this is where I made a lot of mistakes. And this is where a lot of parents make a lot of mistakes. We don't know how to marry and we certainly don't know how to divorce either. If we don't know what we don't know, it'll take us a whole load of trial and error to figure it out, until we say, “Now I know”. So, if you don't want to go through all those looping sagas and if you don't want to waste years of your life and gray hairs and chaos and stress and health issues and all that, please join us at Divorce by Rose. This is the purpose of this community that we've created. We've got a whole bunch of Trusted coaches, experts, and professionals who've been there, done that, have experienced personal wisdom, have strategies and solutions for you to help you jump over these hoops, to help you get to your final position without having to go through all the trial and errors in between.
So, please join us at the Divorce by Rose Community. This is a community that was specifically designed to put two communities together: parents who are contemplating divorce and newly separated who have questions, concerns, worries and anxieties and don't know their next step, don't know what to do and need the guidance and support with coaches, experts and professionals with the tools, strategies, and solutions for these parents.
Essentially, we're bringing these two worlds together where otherwise they would never even meet and I know, and all of us coaches and divorced by Rose know that you need our help. Why? Because we needed it back when we were going through our divorce and we needed it the most, when we didn't have it, we ended up making mistakes and we all end up making the SAME mistakes. It's all a common pattern that proves that you do not only need a lawyer and therapist when divorcing.
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